Like attracts like. You’ll hear me say that often. Superficially opposites attract, but at your core, commonality is most compelling. If healthy choices aren’t alluring to you then you probably need to do some growing. And if they are attractive but you can’t get them, then you need to figure out what red flags you’re waving. The easiest way to do that would be to ask a potential partner. But since I don’t recommend you actually do that, we here on Sparkology are going to try to do that for you through our Date Feedback feature and partner dating coaches. And in the meantime, I’ll write my next posting about red flags you’ll want to avoid.